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□ Evening News reporter Zhu Yu Guo Ling reports

"I did not want the home,woolrich prezzi, is discredited in to see the home crowd." In foreign work Zou Ling (a pseudonym) on the microblogging made this piece of content, a lot of people like her become a "fear of return family." Meanwhile, the latest "elderly Protection Law" in the draft, but the proposed increase "child Huijia look" requirement.

In this regard, sociologist believes that young people should try to go home New Year, promote feelings of affection; some parents should be open-minded, let the children choose some things.

Fear of being asked to go home to escape marriage

Zou Ling in this sentence microblogging attracted everyone's greetings and comfort. In the thread exchange, Zou Ling said she Qiaoxia this sentence, guilt and mind very uneasy.

Zou Ling is from Zhejiang, has over thirty years, after graduating from college,giubbotti moncler,http://web.ueda.ne.jp/~vd0043/cgi-bin/bbs/combbs.cgi?mode=form&%23160;&%23160;, enter a foreign work, after several years of hard work, jumped from a small staff responsible department. As the work gradually stabilized, income has been rising,http://122.140.59.174www.myip.cn, still bought a house in Pudong, also bought a car. Glamorous work, affluent income, easy life, in many people's eyes, she is a beautiful white-collar workers in Shanghai.

I relaxed and happy, the Zou Ling is always a block of heart disease, or a single person has their own. "A few years ago, their jobs are on the rise, is not stable enough, the feeling things will fall."

Zou Ling introduced himself at a young age his family was poor, parents are very hard, since the school began outside,abercrombie france, her heart secretly said to myself, no matter what the situation, the annual Spring Festival are sure to go home.

"But now every home, relatives and friends have asked how to find a boyfriend,moncler sito ufficiale, and I do not know how to answer." Zou Ling said her parents happy, while promising, but is worried about her personal problems, each call, have to ask the twelve. Although impatient, Zou Ling stop and think is still single, is indeed a "lack of filial piety."

Spring Festival is approaching, this difficult again in the face, "my age in his hometown to be gossiping people." Zou Ling said, to this end, his father always felt suppressed in front of folks, many times to arrange a blind date. She was helpless, can only choose not to return home to escape,http://billtran-moo.seesaa.net, "No reason really want to go home." Zou Ling said, maybe she will go on a trip this Spring.

Too many entertaining relatives continue to hide

Some heavy affection, but the reality allows them helpless. Wang and her husband have a pimple on the minds of home for the holiday, while the parents, while the relatives, it is not easy to go and visit.

Wang and her husband are in Shaanxi, two people supporting each other for many years of hard work, his family continues to improve,bracciale tiffany, with the children, but also bought a house and a car. Married another career, the couple was very happy, and soon moved into a new house, two put their parents received a Shanghai. "Before the old man in the home, we try to go home, even if it is hard, but also home to the New Year together with their parents." Wang graduated from prestigious universities of the Department of Chinese traditions very seriously, she believes, year-round home, mostly playing telephone, family inevitably be Shudan, Spring Festival is the best time to share feelings with loved ones, want to go home with their loved ones as the New Year.

But Wang now has to worry about. "Many relatives home, feeling each other very well. Usually we often call each year, the elders are so go back and look, we all agreed down." Wang said,basket jordan pas cher, each got off the phone, to be with her husband chatter hundred a long time,peuterey outlet, the hearts of some afraid to go home, "the journey back, like a move like. overhead not say if home New Year, Spring Festival, every day, seven days visiting relatives, and ultimately, the pressure to drink, not a vacation corpuscles." Wang with her husband every year is a little fear, for the invitation to relatives, ultimately, to buy tickets on the grounds stall in the past.

Go home to spend too much worry

Shanghai Xiao Zheng also decided to stay, but the reason is not emotional, but no money.

Xiao Zheng, 22 years old, graduated from Shandong, just university, a private company in Shanghai to find a marketing job. It stands to reason, started going to the community, Xiao Zheng fishes should be more homesick, but he chose not to go home.

"Now it four or five thousand a month income, excluding rent, transportation and living expenses, almost became a 'paycheck to paycheck'." Xiao Zheng said that the flies are not easy to six months, every day for a living considered clear clear Chu, savings even more pitiful.

Spring Festival is approaching, and to go home. When talking with your family, when repeatedly asked to go home, Xiao Zheng have hesitated perfunctory past, but to go home, after all,http://www.goiadc.com/cgi-bin/index.cgi, is not the last step of a hurdle, after thinking it over, he decided not to go home.

"I have five cousins, there are five or six cousins, everyone get married and have children." As elders, ultimately,nike tn homme, to give him some money, now rising prices, are up some money. Xiao Zheng said,gioielli tiffany outlet, in his hometown, a person 100 yuan lucky money, but like him, in the eyes of his nephew considered "rich", "National Day to go home, took my nephew to buy toys, wrist family, who knows the boy blurted out, 'Well, he is rich!' ",http://sportsfan.jpn.org/cgi-kban/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=137&page=1, so I thought, he must ultimately to 200 yuan per person.

Xiao Zheng told,http://www.fgzx.org/?action-viewcomment-itemid-146773, light some money you have spent half of revenue, plus round-trip travel expenses and the cost of buying gifts, etc., take a trip back home is by no means a small number. "Teeth face, the result is to make yourself suffer."

Xiao Zheng said that under their current economic situation is not optimistic, or do not go home for the wonderful, let alone buy a train ticket now also suffered the pain of the cold wind. According to him, a lot of young people around the same situation.

Go back to her parents or her husband quarrel

The same "fear of return",http://www.hxhwlm.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=109522, for different reasons. Fang and his wife worry about someone to go New Year, and finally they chose not to go home.

Fang and his wife are from Sichuan,louboutin, with work in Shanghai, a stable life, more than two years of marriage, still enjoying two of the world. Seeing the Chinese New Year is coming, but Mr. Fang and his wife to "go home New Year, who" fight for a long time.

Fang said that he and his wife are the same county, but not in a township. Because the home is mountainous, two distance is not near. The first year of marriage, Mr. Fang is in their own home for the New Year, the second year is to accompany his wife back home New Year. It is now the third year, Mr. Fang and his wife for the New Year is always someone unable to reach agreement, the two sides quarrel that end.

Every family has its cupboard. Fang said that being so,moncler outlet, the annual Spring Festival will be a dispute with his wife, this is definitely not an option. Finally, the results of two people to discuss that, do not go home this year, for the time being quelled the dispute.

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A majority of public support, "Huijia look" into "Old Law"

Chung Yeung set up family leave proposal

Evening News yesterday, more than 2700 people on a sample survey from the Shanghai public mail platform online survey showed that 57 percent of people surveyed supported the "Huijia look" write "elderly Protection Act."

For children who work hard all year round outside, "Huijia look" often becomes a luxury. If the "Huijia look" into the draft of elder law, they fair?

38% of people believe that "there is no need to force parents and children can reach a consensus on the frequency of self-home"; there are 31% of people said, "While working in the field to do it somewhat difficult, still support their writing the law "; however,http://www.tricolore.net/cgi-bin/personal/italians.cgi, 26% of respondents to the terms of the public do not understand, 'cause in order to work involuntarily, law enforcement that, very user-friendly."

In the present case, the cumulative workers work less than 10 years, only five days annual leave. The Spring Festival, "11" population concentration, back to a home is not easy. 84% increase in public support for the Chung Yeung Festival dedicated family leave,moncler outlet, for their children to visit their parents' convenience.

Public generally believes that the "Huijia see" Write a good starting point elder law, but moral constraint is unable to regulate by law, to care for the elderly is a heartfelt emotion, just not framed by law. (Reporter Yang Dong)